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Life As An Expat Is Not Always Sweetness And Light

Sitting sun lounge and looking out across your windswept and rain soaked garden it is all too easy to picture yourself living a new life in a new country, but just how does this picture in your mind's eye compare to the reality once you have made the move? Well, this is not perhaps as simple a question to answer as you might imagine.

Probably the greatest problem is that there are such a large number of variables to take into account and Such a large number of factors which are simply not known at the outset. For example, it is very easy to think that the fact that you do not speak the language is not important as, at least in the short term, you may well be able to get by in your mother tongue and will always be able to pick up enough of the language in the longer term. Just how easy is it however to learn a language and just how easy is it to learn the language of your chosen country?

You might also be looking forward to all that exotic food, but just how is a perhaps marked change in your diet going to affect your health? You might very well have experienced some wonderful high quality restaurant food on holiday trips but is this really the sort of food you will be enjoying day in and day out when you are shopping and cooking for yourself?

The problems are of course relatively minor when it comes to comparing them to trying to adjust mentally to living in what is not only a different country, but perhaps a very different culture. Those things which you have considered both curious and fascinating when on holiday could well present considerable problems when they are part and parcel of your everyday life.

Many countries with a sizeable expatriate community develop a large support network, which often includes an expat club which holds regular meetings, organizes events and outings, distributes its own newspaper and considerably more. At first sight this might seem to be extremely comforting but it is worth thinking about why the expats in the country feel that it is necessary to create such an extensive support network. Indeed, when you see the extent to which the lives of many expats revolve around the activities of the expat community you might well find yourself asking why they live overseas at all.

In fact a significant number of expats find that, once the novelty wears off, they regret their decision but have often burnt their bridges and now find themselves with no alternative except to remain where they are and to make the most of their situation.

Of course this is not true of all expats and, as an expat myself, I can tell you that there are many of us who are extremely happy with our decision to live overseas and would not wish to turn back the clock. For many thousands of people each year the decision to live abroad turns out to be the best decision they have ever made and one which they assuredly do not regret. By is it possible to tell which group you are going to join before you take your decision?

Unfortunately, you can never be sure, but there are some things which you can do to increase the chances of your decision being one that you will be glad you made.

The most important thing that you can do is to test the water and this means living in your country of choice for a reasonable length of time before you cut your ties with home. And the critical word here is 'living'.

It is no use merely visiting your chosen country once or twice a year on holiday, staying in a hotel and eating in restaurants. You need to spend at least a year in the country and to throw off any idea of being on holiday. You need to make a determined effort to live as you would want to live in the long term, keeping away from tourist areas and activities and integrating yourself into the local community. Live just like a local, doing your own shopping and cooking and making the time to learn something of the local history, lifestyle and culture, while at the same time making the effort to learn the language.

By staying away from the expatriate community and integrating yourself into the local community from the very start you will rapidly discover whether or not you would be making a wise decision to live overseas permanently.

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