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The Best Sex Positions That Enable A Woman To Reach Orgasm During Sex

By: Robert Thomson

The best sex positions for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse are something every lover should know.

Though she may not want an orgasm every time you have sex, she certainly isn't going to be too happy if sex ends when you've ejaculated, turned over and gone to sleep! The best way to ensure her sexually contentment is to make sure she's had at least one orgasm before you ejaculate. There are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen. So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of sex positions that will let her get the pleasure she craves, while also making sure you don't miss out on your orgasm!

First of all, if you haven't tried sex in the woman on top, then check it out! Many women like being uppermost when it comes to making love - it's a position that permits them to move in the way that gives them the greatest pleasure, whether that's through stimulation of the clitoris or G spot stimulation. She can rock her hips and pelvis much more in this position, and because she's in charge of her movements, she's likely to get some orgasmic satisfaction. She can either press her clitoris against the body of your penis as you thrustgrind it against your pubic mound, or lean back or forwards so that her G spot gets pressure it needs to give her pleasure. If you can control your ejaculation, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of attaining orgasm during intercourse.

If she wants to improve the sensations in her vagina, she can squeeze your penis with her PC muscles: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly increase the pressure on her G spot - and most likely increase the chances of her having an orgasm and also ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. (Female ejaculation is a new idea for many men - but basically, if her G spot is stimulated for long enough, and in the right way, when she reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her vagina will squirt out during the muscular contractions of her orgasm.)

And another advantage of woman on top lovemaking is that you can enjoy the sight of her breasts, and caress them as she moves on top of you. Of course, if she's facing away from you, then you have the pleasure of watching her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position, known as the Reverse Cowgirl,uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much.

And what next? Well, the good ol' missionary position. But before you groan, think again. Many women like missionary position sex, because it allows for those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like the position too! Sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards, her knees near her chest, gives you really deep penetration and the chance to thrust deeply and powerfully. What's more, if you have an erection which curves upwards, as many do, then man on top variations will allow your penis to stimulate her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play, either with a vibrator or with your fingers, and you have the greatest chance of her achieving orgasm!

As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a circular pattern. The penis moves in a very interesting way in the vagina! This sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex circles, and it can send her into a long-lasting orgasm. Another variation is to use eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just press on her G spot, so don't go more than a few centimetres into her vagina when you try this.

Another good idea for her to achieve orgasm is to have her sitting on a table or, alternatively, any other surface where you can enter her vagina as you stand in front of her with her legs apart. Sex in this position is great because you can thrust into her while you embrace and fondle each other. To increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, you can give her a little extra clitoral attention. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may catch her G spot in the way needed to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a lot more exciting to be having sex in an unusual position and somewhere other than the bedroom. The added excitement of this can help take you both to a quicker and more powerful climax.

Next, there's a very loving sex position known as the "spoons" position. She lies on her side with her back towards you, while you enter her vagina from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, especially if she lifts her upper leg slightly while you push into her. The best thing about this sexual position is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach around her, fondle her breasts, and kiss back, while she (or you) can stimulate her clitoris. Another great addition to this position is the opportunity to make love on your sides while you face each other.

The best way to get into this position is by starting from the normal man on top, ask her to lift her knees towards her chest and then roll over onto your sides (agree which way you're going first!)). You can keep going for much longer in this position before you ejaculate, as there's much less pressure on your erection. And, with the right attention, and perhaps a helping rub on or around her clitoris, she will reach orgasm before you ejaculate, so you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling her coming around your penis inside her vagina.

And lastly, what about the thrill of doggy style sex? This primal position is many men's favorite sex position, being so rude and raunchy, and men often come quickly. But many like it too, and there are plenty of good reasons for this. It allows deep penetration, it permits her to express her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her lover as she wishes, and, above all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, especially if you hold her hips and guide her movements. If she raises her head or lowers it so she's bending down from her pelvis, you'll get a lot of exciting variation in sensation - so you can find the exact position that gives you both the greatest pleasure.

There you are, then: a series of sexual positions which give you a chance of the woman's orgasm during sex. But if you're the man, and these positions don't make her reach orgasm on their own, don't worry. Make sure sure she has her orgasm from oral sex or a hand job before you enter her, and you'll both be abe to enjoy sex to the full.

Orgasm during intercourse feels great, but remember there are plenty of other ways of getting orgasmic satisfaction!

Article Source: http://blisspublisher.com

Rod Phillips advises on sexual issues at Sex In Human Loving.

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